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About our user types and registration:
- Who can become a Superhero?
What do you define as a medical condition?
- Any child 18 years old or younger with a chronic or prolonged medical condition can be a Help Your Hero Superhero. All Superhero accounts require the consent of their parents/legal guardian.
I know someone who is over 18 that has a medical condition. Can they become a Superhero?
- Help Your Hero defines a "medical condition" as any chronic disease or disability and/or prolonged illness or state that requires treatment or management as diagnosed by a physician or health professional.
I am a friend/relative of a child with a medical condition. Can I sign them up myself?
- At this time the Help Your Hero Superhero experience is only allowed for children 18 years old or younger with a medical condition. It is our hope that this will change in the future, but we've got to start somewhere!
What is a "SuperFriend"?
- Unfortunately, no. The Help Your Hero website has been specifically configured to comply with COPPA (Children's Online Privacy Protection Act), which requires us to have written consent from the child's parent/legal guardian. We recommend that you direct the parents of the child you'd like to see become a Superhero to our site through our "Refer a Superhero" program (which you can access through the My Control Center link panel on your account). You'll gain points for each referral that signs up!
My child is under 13 and wants to be a SuperFriend. How do I sign him/her up?
- SuperFriend is our special name for any member on our site that is connected to a Superhero. This includes family and friends that you bring to the site as well as any new friends you connect with through the site.
Does my online signature have to be identical to my handwritten signature?
- To comply with COPPA regulations, you will need to authorize the account on behalf of your child by first creating your own account and providing the appropriate permission during registration. You can sign up for a parent account here.
How do I register as a SideKick?
- No. The law recognizes that electronic signatures will not be identical to handwritten signatures. When using the RightSignature mouse signature pad, hold down the mouse button to sign. While it is preferable to sign your full name, initials are sufficient. Any mark you make is legally valid. Signing a contract requires a willful mark. Therefore, when signing a paper contract, you can sign with any mark you wish. However, we generally use the same handwritten signature every time we sign documents so that it can also be used as identification. Therefore, we encourage you to sign your name as you would a normal contract as best you can.
Why can't I add more than 4 people as Administrators?
- SideKick registration is available only through an invitation from your Superhero's parent/legal guardian. They will initiate your registration. You will receive an email with your log in information.
I've already created an account to be a SuperFriend for a Superhero, but now I've been asked to be a SideKick for a different hero. Do I have to create a separate account?
- We've restricted the number of people that you can set up as Sub-Accounts to 4 in order to limit the number of people that have access to make changes to your child's Headquarters. In most cases, you, a SideKick, and an Additional Parent will be all that is needed. The 4th slot is for your SuperHero if you wish to allow them the be an administrator.
I've registered as a SuperFriend, but how do I find my Superhero?
- Yes. At this time we are not able to convert your SuperFriend account to a SideKick account.
What's the difference between my Username and my "Nick/Screen Name"?
- You can try searching for the Superhero on our site. In the search field in the top right corner of the site, type the child's Superhero name (i.e. "Sally-Bee") and look for the listing with a category of "Groups." Once you locate the group, click on the "Request Membership" option and await approval.
How do I reset my password? Can I register by phone instead of online?
- The "Username" is the name you use to sign into your account. The "Nick/Screen Name" is the name that will display on the site for others to see. They can be the same if you'd prefer, but they don't have to be. For online safety, you should never use your real name as your Screen Name.
- Since Help Your Hero is an online community, we require all our members to create an account online. If you'd like assistance with the registration process, you can give us a call at 859-441-6393 while you are at your computer.
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About making Connections with other users:
- I've received a Connection request, but I don't know who it's from. How do I handle it?
I made a Connection with another user, but now I'd prefer to not be connected. How can I un-connect?
- Unfortunately at this time we do not have a way for you to contact the requester through the system. If you accept the request, however, you will have the opportunity to delete the connection. We highly recommend that you inform your friends and family that filling out the message box on the connection request helps you determine who they are and accept their request faster.
I'm concerned about my child using Connections. What are your recommendations for safety?
- We hate to hear that, but disconnecting is easy. Click on the "Connections" link in your My Control Center links panel (right side of the site). Locate the person you wish to disconnect and click the white square box on the right side of their blue header bar. Click "Delete Selected" at the bottom of your connections list.
What do the different profile icon colors mean?
- Online safety is a big deal, and we take it very seriously. Please click here for our Online Safety Guide.
- Except for Superheroes, all members of the Hero’s network display icons color-coded to display the roles they play on the site. Green: SuperFriends, Yellow: SuperParents (Parents of Superheroes), Blue: SideKicks
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About the Control Center:
- What's the difference between my Feed and my Wall?
How do I use my Wall?
- The Feed is a listing of the activity of you, your Connections, and your Groups. It's basically a running list of everything that's going on with your community. Your Wall shows just your activity, including the activity that others have done in conjunction with you, such as Connecting.
Why doesn’t my child see a wall or feed on their profile?
- The Wall is the ideal place to share thoughts, jokes or notes about what's going on with you that only your Connections will see. You can think of it as a combination of Facebook and Twitter, but in a much more simplified way. Things posted on the Wall are meant more for "checking in", rather than generating conversations, though it's certainly possible to chat back and forth on the Wall. Just know that everything you post on your Wall is seen by everyone who visits your profile. If you're looking for a private conversation, you can start a messaging session instead.
How do I upload an image to share on another user's Wall?
- As part of our pledge to keep children 13 years old and younger as secure as possible on our site, we have limited their ability to accidentally post personal information into the public domain by turning off their personal walls and feeds. While they will still be able to view the walls on any adult profiles they visit, they will not themselves be able to have conversations in that format. They will still be able to comment and reply on blogs and forums, and will still be able to connect with others and send messages through the internal messaging system, but as such communications are private (viewable by parents signed in as their child for monitoring), they are less able to post private details for anyone on the system to view.
I'm having trouble finding my Hero's updates on my wall among all the other activity? What am I supposed to be looking for?
- At this time, photos can only be shared through your own Gallery. After uploading an image to the gallery, it will automatically appear on the Feed, allowing all your Connections to see it. If you'd like to send the photo privately, you can send it to them in a message instead.
How can I have a private conversation with another user that won't show up on the Feed?
- Clicking on "Groups" above the post box will remove all the Connections activity from the list, allowing you to more easily see what your Superhero's Group activity has been.
I'm receiving too many notification emails. How do I turn them off?
- There is a built-in messaging system that works a lot like email. You can send messages to your Connections by either clicking on "Messages" in your Control Center, then clicking "Message a Connection", and clicking "Send Private Message" next to the member you'd like to message. Or, you can locate the member in you Connections list, and click "Send Private Message" next to their name.
- In your Control Center, click on "Manage Profile". Under the Information & Settings heading, click on "Preferences". Adjust your notification settings, then click "Save My Settings" at the bottom.
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About Superhero Headquarters:
- My Superhero child isn't capable of using the internet by him/herself, and doesn't have an email address. Do I have to create a SuperChild account?
Is there a way for me to monitor my child's activity on the site?
- No, the SuperChild account is simply an optional account designed for those Superheroes that wish to maintain their own Connections and use the site independently.
How do I give administrative access to my SideKick to post on our behalf on my child's group Headquarters?
- Making sure that you are connected to your child's account will allow you to monitor their activity on the front end. To keep track of their private activities, you are provided with the option of logging in to your child's account through your Sub-Accounts section.
How should we use the Blog & Forum features that came with the Superhero Headquarters?
- At this time, administrative rights can only be assigned by the Hero Helpers on the site's backend. To request that your SideKick, SuperChild or Additional Parent sub-accounts be given administrative rights to your child's Headquarters, contact us with their first and last Names and their screen name.
My Superhero has decided he/she wants to change his/her choice of Superhero caricature. Is it possible to change?
- Our recommendation is to use the Blog to share news, thoughts, etc. that pertain to the real-life experience your child is going through. Some parents might find it helpful to maintain their own personal journey blog, to share their thoughts and feelings as an outlet. The Forum, on the other hand, is the ideal place for your child to build their Superhero persona through story writing, sharing of ideas, fan art and more. Forums come with one Forum already created- "My Story," but Headquarter administrators can create as many forums as needed to organize the Superhero's story and fit his or her needs.
- Unfortunately, since the caricature your child chooses during registration is used on both his/her site and merchandise, it cannot be changed. Maintaining the same caricature in the long term helps to build familiarity with your child's persona, and can greatly assist recognition with the community at large.
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About Unity and story writing:
- Can you explain this whole "writing my hero's story" thing?
I'm not very good at creative writing, but I don't want to sit on the sidelines. How can I participate?
- The basic point of providing Superhero caricatures for children with medical conditions is to give them an outlet of creativity and fun that allows them to deal with their condition while overcoming the struggles they may be experiencing. When we say "writing," we are really suggesting that creating a story around the child that utilizes the fantastic realm of a comic-book style universe is a great method of keeping that child focused on the good. Writing doesn't have to mean penning a novel. Sharing ideas, brainstorming how the Superhero could react to certain events, creating artwork and playing games all feed into the process of writing the hero's story.
Does my Superhero have to have stories? Could we just use the Superhero caricature on its own?
- First, we'll suggest that you check out our Community Writing page to get an idea of what you can do. Even if you don't feel like you can write an eloquent sentence, you do have the power to suggest a new direction to the story in very simple ways. If participating in this way still doesn't work for you, then you should make sure to at least try to follow along what others are writing, and perhaps spend more time commenting and encouraging your hero through their blog posts. Remember that your primary function as a SuperFriend is to support and encourage your hero, so even if it takes you out of your comfort zone a bit, understand that it's what he or she needs, and they will greatly appreciate knowing that you are there, you're reading along and you care!
Too many people are trying to add to a hero's story at once. How do we prevent that? I'm a Superhero, and I don't feel comfortable letting other people write my story. Can I do it on my own?
- You certainly can. Help Your Hero's services are designed somewhat a la cart, meaning that you are free to use some features, but not others, to suit your needs. We do, however, feel it's important to suggest that without at least a backstory, the caricature will mean very little as a representation of the child's Superhero.
What is "Unity" and how does it relate to my Superhero?
- Absolutely! Just ask your parents/SideKick to assist with letting others know that's how you'd like to do it, and discuss what should happen on your Headquarters should you have difficulty getting to the computer.
Help Your Hero seems to be all about positive things, but I'd like my story to include violence. Can it?
- Unity is the city that all Superheroes live within in our Hero-verse. It is a fictional city, and is the setting for your hero's stories. For more about Unity, read its Amazing Story or take the tour.
Is there some guide about what sort of things are allowed in the "Hero-verse" world of Unity?
- We understand that a certain amount of "rough and tumble" is going to happen as our heroes write stories about confronting their nemeses. We also understand that things may need to get a bit bleak according to what our heroes are facing in their real lives. All we can truly do is to remind all our writers that you have a community of readers, and you should try your best to gauge what your readers will feel comfortable with. Also, it is never appropriate to use foul, obscene, derogatory or discriminatory language anywhere on Help Your Hero's site, even within stories. Remember that this is supposed to be a fun and uplifting experience for everyone. If you need to include violence, do so appropriately and for the shortest amount of time as possible.
- We are constantly building our resources for Unity and the Hero-verse. The current information can be found in our Community Interaction Guide.
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About our online Store:
- I want to order a personalized t-shirt with my Superhero's name/caricature. How can I be sure I get everything right?
It says to sign in for member pricing, but when I sign in, the pricing does not change.
- It's very important to first read the instructions in the product description for any personalized product. Follow the instructions for order without errors. The best way to ensure that your Superhero's name is spelled correctly is to copy it from their Headquarters. Make sure it does not have an "'s" at the end!
What do the letters and numbers in the product description mean?
- Not all products have special member pricing, and not all member types are offered discounts when they do occur.
- These are internal codes used to process your order properly.
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About Help Your Hero's Fundraising Resources:
- I'd like to use one of the ideas listed on your site. Do I have to pay you a fee?
Will Help Your Hero organize and coordinate our fundraiser?
- No. Help Your Hero, LLC does not charge for the use of our fundraising ideas.
I want to include my hero's caricature image on my fundraiser materials. Am I allowed to do that, and where can I get print-ready files?
- We are unable to assist with any fundraising coordination, but we do have a Fundraising Quick Start Guide that offers advice on how to organize a fundraiser. You can download that here.
My Superhero needs money for their medical expenses. Does Help Your Hero offer financial assistance?
- You may use any of the caricature files located in your Headquarter's Resource Manager for personal use. You may use any of those files on fundraiser materials that you will not be selling, such as an invitation, a flyer or a banner. If you wish to sell items with the caricature on it, you must purchase the items through the Help Your Hero Store.
Can I request that my hero's Connections donate to a PayPal account I have created?
- We do not raise money for individual Superheroes, and we do not offer financial assistance. We do, however, have a library of ideas for raising funds on our Fundraising page.
- If you would like to provide a link to Superhero’s Headquarters to raise funds for that Superhero (e.g. a Paypal account), only a parent or Legal Guardian shall be permitted to set up a Paypal account for a Superhero. If you choose to set up your personal Paypal account and promote it, HYH asks that you disclose to others how the donated funds will be used for the Superhero. In the event that HYH is contacted about how the funds are to be used for a Superhero, HYH will refer such inquires directly to the parent or legal guardian of said Superhero. HYH does not and cannot accept any donations for specific or on behalf of specific Superheroes.
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About Help Your Hero:
- How can I contact Help Your Hero about a media appearance or interview?
Are there positions available to work at Help Your Hero?
- Please contact Jackie Waters at J.Waters@helpyourhero.org or 859-441-6393 or 859-743-3939 for more information.
Is Help Your Hero a tax-exempt, non-profit organization?
- Not at this time, but we do plan to add to our creative team in the future. Check back with us!
Why does Help Your Hero use ".org" for its URL?
- No. We sent our application for tax-exempt, non-profit status to the IRS in June 2011, and it was denied. We tried to make some of the changes they suggested, but it became clear that in order to receive non-profit status, we would be required to change most of what we wanted to do. Our mission was too important to alter just to get the IRS's blessing. We made the decision to move forward as a for-profit business so that we are able to do what we envisioned for our Superheroes and their SuperFriends. Thank you for your understanding.
I got a call/email/letter asking for a donation for Help Your Hero. Is this legitimate?
- While ".org" is typically believed to belong only to non-profits, it's actually appropriate for any type of organization. We identify as an organization, rather than a company, due to our mission of bringing people together with many of our services.
- If you are contacted by someone posing as one of our representatives, please contact us immediately.
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